Do something little. Really little. It’s not shameful.
When I look back at life, I realize that I’ve spent a lot of it trying to fight my insecurities to get a life I deserve.
In fact, I’ve spent a huge chunk of life feeling vulnerable, while trying to defeat the blurred thoughts in my mind which keep me restless, making me realize that I’m not good at a lot of things.
I dreaded the stage
Every time I stepped on the stage, I felt like I was just a word away from making a fool of myself and giving everyone a good laugh.
Now that years have passed, my legs don’t shake when I’m giving a speech. I don’t fear to look people in the eye.
The reason why I don’t choke on stage is that I’ve already done what it takes to kill the insecurities. I’ve dealt with my part of being bad, and improved.
But all this has a reason behind it – I had silently spent years trying to overcome that insecurity.
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Here’s a lesson I’ve learned from the changes I try to bring in my life – little changes work better than the bigger ones. Or at least, it seems to be so in my case. Your lifestyle might be different than me. Maybe you are busier, have lesser time, or…
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If you’re like other humans, which is quite obvious, you chase money, you do whatever you can to leverage your social reputation, and try to impress people.
You work harder to gain a greater sense of accomplishment and don’t miss an opportunity to do what can make you feel better about yourself – whether it’s buying fancy objects, eating your favorite delicacy or enjoying for a while.
Even if you think of yourself as different, you do what others do. We’re all similar.
In the end, you realize that nothing make you as happy as much as you had expected. Your expectations always turn out to be an illusion – and illusions break.
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We all have dreams and passions – those which can be easily believed, and those which we don’t reveal to avoid making a joke of ourselves. Some dreams might seem enormous – hard to achieve and beyond your reach. Somewhat close to impossible, or unbelievably hard. You crave them and…
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Firstly, people don’t want to be seen as fools.
I mean no wants to be the social oddball who is seen as a dreamer. People think of themselves as dreamers, but they don’t want to be called one.
Being a dreamer makes you vulnerable all at once. Everyone comes to know what you’re up to – your plans, your tiny aspirations, and your intentions – there’s no way out.
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Are you good enough at something? Maybe. Do you like what you say you like? Are you sure? Do you know it in your heart? Perhaps. This is the real question. Do you know it in your heart? Wait. Before you close your browser tab and run away from this…
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