Vishal Ostwal

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What Should Be Your Most Important Priorities in Life


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I’ve been thinking about it. If I could boil down life to handful of important parts, what would remain?

Life is a neat thing.

Even if I mess up certain parts of it, I want to be able to see its bigger picture, always. But that rarely happens.

It’s easy for anyone to get frustrated by usual problems and lose the ability to see the main priorities in life.

Losing track is easy.

So I need to know the important priorities in life

That’s because I need to be reminded of what I’m living for.

It gives me a chance to adjust my actions and ensure that I’m on the right path. Otherwise, I’d feel like I’ve wasted my life.

If you cut down life in some of the most important parts, you’d get five pieces. Those should be your foremost priorities.

Top Priorities in Life

Here’s an ordered list of what your most important priorities in life should be

All these words may hold different meanings for you, but they fundamentally control our lives. All your decisions branch out from these few important priorities.

1. Health

“After somewhat ruining my health, I can no longer deny how much it matters to me.”

It’s the first rule – care about yourself.

Your health, peace of mind, wellness – all of this matters. You are your body. You don’t exist without it.

Do what you know is right for you. It can be through exercise, meditation, yoga, or spiritual practices. I prefer to walk, or go for a hike near a hill sometimes.

At the same time, remember you aren’t a mere lump of flesh – which means that you also need to be emotionally and mentally sound to call yourself ‘healthy.’

Having a set of abs but a restless soul isn’t the definition of healthy.

2. Relationships

“If I were alone on earth, nothing would matter much.”

Your relationships are your source of happiness and purpose. You have lesser pains and regrets when you stay with the people you love.

Whether it’s your community, friends, or family that makes you happy – stand by them.

There’s a nice TED Talk in which psychiatrist Robert Waldinger talks about the longest study conducted to find out what makes people happy.

Guess what the answer was? Relationships.

When life’s void of people who care about you, it can seem pretty dull and dark. No matter how strongly we deny, we’re dependent on other people.

3. Security

“This comes down to survival.”

It’s just one of those fundamentals about life which are embedded in us.

  • You earn money for financial security
  • You work to feed your family
  • You take care of those who depend on you

Sometimes, you save money for education, hospital expenses, or welfare. But ultimately all your efforts are about securing your family and yourself.

You need to make your survival easy.

The reason why humans build concrete houses, buy life insurance, or choose safer cars is security. They need to know that their life is stable.

4. Development

“What am I, if I’m not growing?”

Although life changes constantly, you need to prepare for improvement.

A stagnant life is boring.

It’s unsafe, too.

As you go through life, development becomes an inseparable part of your existence. You need to evolve.

But how do you develop?

In lots of ways.

You can invest in your learning, fix your current lifestyle, or adapt new skills..

In short, it’s about working on whatever would lead you towards a better life. Now, it can be thorough your career growth, increased income, and other activities.

5. Play

“People grow up when they decide to.”

Have fun.

Life’s not about bare existence. It’s not pure work, either. It’s about being a human and living like one.

Happiness isn’t just in material possessions. It’s all around you, in little things which can keep you happy forever.

Be a child, be a dreamer, start working on your passions. Gather enough reasons to smile.

Your priorities can go hand in hand

You may get confused.

Or you may jumble your priorities.

“Should I value certain parts of life more than others?” you may ask yourself.

Maybe not.

You need to realize that you don’t always have to choose certain priorities over the other.

Rather, your decisions can go hand in hand. Your priorities needn’t interfere each other.


Petersen says:

By having life priorities, you set your mind on things you should focus on in life. This helps in making decisions as you derive everything within your priorities. Thanks for sharing!

You got this, Petersen!

Saravanan PD says:

The way you explained about the priority of life sounds really good and refreshing. Looking for a good post like this which make refreshing always.

Hey Saravanan, it feels good to know that you liked it. Thanks for commenting.


thanks for the up date on setting my priorities in life though, it can be traced to personality where we can re-set ours based on what we value most and appreciate . thanks again once more and God bless you.

Hey John, it’s really about what one values the most, though it takes some time to recognize that.

Thanks for commenting.

Anon says:

Maybe a priority should be calculating the priorities.

Sounds sensible enough, Anon.

kandarp shukla says:

hi sir, thank you for helping us to clarify our vision and common goals in life. i have a question that being a good human and helping others is as much important as these five priorities or it may become roadblocker ?

Hey Kandarp,

Kindness is something that always pays-off, I believe. It brings a lasting contentment along with it.

You can always be a good human and go for what you want without losing the track of other priorities – it’s what makes everything matter.

Zavar says:

Thanks I needed this

I’m glad it helped, Zavar.

Jojo says:

I agree with this one, but maybe put relationships before health because you can’t really be healthy and happy without positive relationships in your life, so they need to be attended to, then do the other things that make you healthy (just my opinion)

Hey Jojo,

Survival is a primary thing. Like, we all start living right after we’re born … so it doesn’t even seem like a concern. Health happens in the background.

In a way, relationships are are really what makes life worth living. But we lose them when health gets deteriorated, and it’s scary, right?

So perhaps, all these aspects are interdependent, giving meaning to each other.

Suzy says:

Awesome am pleased

Thank You.

Nice to see you on the blog, Suzy.

dammy says:

waooo,I love this write neighbour and I argued this topic,but my conclusion with her was money anyway I learnt a new priority now,I can now change my think as per money

Hi Dammy,

Priorities rather depend on what you value more. In the end it’s not so hard to decide. So your choices may vary for sure.

Thanks for commenting.

Wolverine says:

Great post, thank you.

You can use your real name here, David. 😉

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